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You can only message members you're connected with. Send a connection request; once accepted, messaging is unlocked for both of you.
Because messaging requires a mutual connection, you'll never receive messages from someone you haven't approved. Your inbox stays relevant.
To stop receiving messages from someone, simply disconnect from them. Once disconnected, they can no longer message you — no drama, no fuss.
Browse all member profiles and galleries without being bombarded by unsolicited messages. Take your time to find people you genuinely like.
Members can verify their profile for a trusted badge, giving you confidence in who you're connecting with. Look for the verification tick on profiles.
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